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The BDSM Slave Training Mini-Course



BDSM Training

First off it must be stated that this e-course is designed for consenting adults 18+ years of age. 

Nobody associated with the writing, publication, distribution or in any other way connected with it, is in any way liable for any damages that result from your engaging in the activities described herein. 

You assume all risks associated with your participation. With that said safe, sane and consensual BDSM play is a truly breathtaking experience and like everybody else the first step into play is education. 



What BDSM Training is, What it is Not


When you first think of BDSM, what comes to mind for you?  If you were to ask ten people that question, chances are pretty good that you’d get ten different answers.  And it’s no wonder with all of the BDSM themed sites and blogs that are available these days.  But what is the truth about BDSM and what is just fantasy?  Let’s find out.

There are a number of ways that people define BDSM – bondage, domination, submission/sadism, and masochism.  For many, the term brings to mind the idea of whipping someone or heavy bondage – and you’d be correct in both cases.  But what you might also want to keep in mind is that there are many different things that can encompass BDSM:


  • Bondage
  • Whipping
  • Flogging
  • Spanking
  • Electro-stimulation
  • Verbal dominance
  • Master – slave relationship
  • Sex
  • Etc.


This list could be much longer, but it’s a good sampling of what most people include when they talk about BDSM.


You can look at BDSM in two main ways.  One, it’s when you have a relationship or an agreement between people in which one person submits to the desires of the other.  And two, it can also be a relationship that involves one person giving and one person receiving pain or intense sensations.


That’s all well and good, but there are many misconceptions about BDSM that are causing it to be ‘blasphemized’ and thought of as evil or dangerous.


While it’s true that BDSM can be dangerous, almost every relationship can be dangerous in some way – so let’s talk about the myths that many people have about BDSM to help you understand what is causing the misunderstanding.


The first myth tends to begin with the fantasy of locking someone in a basement or a dungeon and keeping them there against their will to perform sexual acts.  But while this sounds like a hot scene, and it can be, the truth is that BDSM is a consensual relationship in which boundaries are discussed beforehand, agreed upon, and then the scene can take place.  There are also limits in terms of the submissive’s consent – they can always take it away.


Safe, sane, and consensual are the three words that are commonly taught by BDSM practitioners.  This means that BDSM is not going to involve anything that permanently harms someone.  You can’t just go around flogging people and calling it BDSM.  You need to find someone that wants you to flog them and then they will agree to certain limits, you will abide by them, and then you will have the session that you both want.


Nothing in BDSM is meant to inflict permanent damage to a person – aside from tattooing or branding as a part of a Master/slave situation – but that’s not really damaging to the body, only permanent.


BDSM is also a practice that does not have to include sex – contrary to popular belief.  Many couples or partners like to have a bondage or SM relationship that involves intense sensations for their sadistic or masochistic tendencies, but sex is never involved.  This allows people to explore their limitations in terms of pain as well as the control of one person over another.


BDSM is simply another way to bring excitement into a relationship – both sexual and non-sexual.  The turning over of one’s ‘power’ to another allows you to experience all the sensations that you want while being given the power to guide someone on a journey to exceed their expectations of themselves is also gratifying.  And all of it is done in a safe and controlled manner.


What are you waiting for?





I hope you enjoyed Part 1 of the free e-Course. Keep your eyes peeled for the next edition which will arrive in a couple of days!

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Mistress Sophia 

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