BDSM Slave Training Mini-Course
First off it must be stated that this
e-course is designed for consenting adults 18+ years of age.
Nobody associated with the writing, publication,
distribution or in any other way connected with it, is in any way liable for any
damages that result from your engaging in the activities described herein.
You assume all risks associated with your participation.
With that said safe, sane and consensual BDSM play is a truly breathtaking
experience and like everybody else the first step
into play is education.
BDSM Training is, What it is Not
When you first think of BDSM, what
comes to mind for you? If you were
to ask ten people that question, chances are pretty good that you’d get ten
different answers. And it’s no
wonder with all of the BDSM themed sites and blogs that are available these
days. But what is the truth about BDSM and what is just fantasy?
Let’s find out.
There are a number of ways that people
define BDSM – bondage, domination, submission/sadism, and masochism.
For many, the term brings to mind the idea of whipping someone or heavy
bondage – and you’d be correct in both cases.
But what you might also want to keep in mind is that there are many
different things that can encompass BDSM:
– slave relationship
This list could be much longer, but
it’s a good sampling of what most people include when they talk about BDSM.
You can look at BDSM in two main ways.
One, it’s when you have a relationship or an agreement between people
in which one person submits to the desires of the other.
And two, it can also be a relationship that involves one person giving
and one person receiving pain or intense sensations.
That’s all well and good, but there
are many misconceptions about BDSM that are causing it to be ‘blasphemized’
and thought of as evil or dangerous.
While it’s true that BDSM can be
dangerous, almost every relationship can be dangerous in some way – so let’s
talk about the myths that many people have about BDSM to help you understand
what is causing the misunderstanding.
The first myth tends to begin with the
fantasy of locking someone in a basement or a dungeon and keeping them there
against their will to perform sexual acts.
But while this sounds like a hot scene, and it can be, the truth is that
BDSM is a consensual relationship in which boundaries are discussed beforehand,
agreed upon, and then the scene can take place.
There are also limits in terms of the submissive’s consent – they can
always take it away.
sane, and consensual are the three words that are commonly taught
by BDSM practitioners. This means
that BDSM is not going to involve anything that permanently harms someone.
You can’t just go around flogging people and calling it BDSM.
You need to find someone that wants you to flog them and then they will
agree to certain limits, you will abide by them, and then you will have the
session that you both want.
Nothing in BDSM is meant to inflict
permanent damage to a person – aside from tattooing or branding as a part of a
Master/slave situation – but that’s not really damaging to the body, only
BDSM is also a practice that does not
have to include sex – contrary to popular belief.
Many couples or partners like to have a bondage or SM relationship that
involves intense sensations for their sadistic or masochistic tendencies, but
sex is never involved. This allows
people to explore their limitations in terms of pain as well as the control of
one person over another.
BDSM is simply another way to bring
excitement into a relationship – both sexual and non-sexual.
The turning over of one’s ‘power’ to another allows you to
experience all the sensations that you want while being given the power to guide
someone on a journey to exceed their expectations of themselves is also
gratifying. And all of it is done
in a safe and controlled manner.
What are you waiting for?
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edition which will arrive in a couple of days!
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