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BDSM
Slave Training:
Keys To Role Play - How To Get
The Most Out Of It
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Role
playing can be an amazing way to turn up the intensity of any sexual
relationship, but even more so in a bdsm partnership. When
you add the element of role playing, you can further create a sense of
authority and control in a scene. But there are good ways to
do this and bad ways to do this. Here is what you need to
know before you get started.
First
of all, find out what your partner might fantasize about in terms of
role play. Does he or she think about being a naughty student
and you as the controlling teacher? Maybe they’re into the
policeman and criminal scenario? Take some time to talk with
your partner about potential scenes that you can do with these
roles. You can even go shopping together to find the
appropriate costumes to wear. Using costumes is actually a
great way to get you both ‘into’ the scene that you are going to do.
Once you’ve
determined what you want to explore, try to figure out exactly what
makes that fantasy so hot for your partner. Is it the
outfits? The dirty talk? The spanking? By
talking with your partner as well as thinking about the role playing
that you want to do, try to figure out what’s most important from this
scene for them as well as for you. This will intensify the
experience and help you both get into the roles more easily.
Another way to
make sure the role play works well for you is to make sure that you’re
staying in character as much as you can. Talk dirty or use
medical speak in a doctor – patient scene. Make the area
where you are playing look like a place the role play could
occur. Set up ‘props’ that will help you both get in the
mood. You want to make the ‘real’ world go away for the time
being.
When you’re new
to role playing, you also want to keep in mind that not everything will
go right – that’s inevitable. So, make sure that you’re not
being too serious about keeping things in the role play. What
matters is that you’re both having a good time. If your
accent for the French prostitute isn’t perfect, don’t sweat
it. And if that rope tie falls apart, simply fix it and move
on with the scene. When you let things get to you during a
scene, they will disrupt the scene more than these little ‘problems.’
More tips to
make your role play work:
- Research
the role you want to play – Read stories about the character that you
will be playing. You can also read erotica stories that include this
character to help you get more ideas on what you can do.
- Switch
things up – If your partner is interested, you might want to switch up
the roles every now and then too. Or you can change roles in
the middle of the role play, if that’s something that you both want to
do.
- Try
new things – There are hundreds of different role play games you can
play, why not try them all?
- You
really don’t need anything but a vivid imagination – You don’t need to
have the right clothes or props to have a fun role play.
- Talk
about the role play afterwards – Discuss what worked and what didn’t
after the role play so that you can just get better with each time you
try.
Role playing is
a fun thing to add to your BDSM scenes as it gives both partners a
sense of being someone else for a while – and that can lead to intense
games of control and power. Isn’t that what you want after
all?
Keep
your eyes
peeled for the next
edition!
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Read
about more ways to enahnce your role playing so you can experience the
true freedom of being someone else in the bdsm slave training guide
(using our step-by-step
instructional manual, pictures, and diagrams). Learn more about BDSM
Role Playing and discover an intensity like never
before!
Regards,
Mistress Sophia
Head
Instructor - www.discoverbdsmslavetraining.com
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